Synopsis

Just shy of her ten-year wedding anniversary, Jessica faces a life or death decision: succumb to the destruction of her husband trying to kill her or vow to create a better life for herself and her children from that day forward. 

Joy Is Your Only Job- From Gangster Housewife to Happy Humanitarian is a raw and gripping memoir of Jessica Santonato as the self-confessed wife of a gang leader and career criminal, how she left the marriage after a brutal attack that nearly killed her, and then transformed her life in ways she never imagined. This is a tale that hits at the hearts and minds of every reader going or has been through deep trauma and adversity to transform their pain into a place of pure joy. 

The story starts ten years before the attack in their hometown of Edmonton, Alberta. Alluded to the glamour of gang life, blinded by love, they are married and conceived their first child in prison. She is quickly exposed to the operations of the criminal world and put in charge of overseeing specific illegal activities. 

Behind and between the scenes of a young adult trying to find her place in the world, Jessica’s terrifying adventures take her through abuse, gang-rape, attempted suicide, prostitution, drugs, and trying to cope with “friends”  being viciously murdered around her. Without family or true friends to turn to for support, her experience and upbringing are vastly different, she discovers, from anything conceivably normal. 

Based out of Toronto, Canada, Jessica Santonato is the co-founder and managing partner of Syndicate 33, a social enterprise that collaborates with young adults in emerging economies who are called to make an impact in their communities. Jessica works with clients to be unconstrained in the face of any challenges and free to create a life of joy.  She was one of three people chosen by an American personal development company to help more than a thousand entrepreneurs from across all continents with their communication and overall effectiveness.

She is an EPPY Award winner for her contribution to the international best-selling book series, “Pebbles In The Pond”, which also features Lisa Nicholas, SARK, Neale Donald Walsch, Arielle Ford and Marci Shimoff.

Outline

Raw, provoking and transparent, Joy Is Your Only Job- From Gangster Housewife to Happy Humanitarian is the memoir of Jessica’s years as the self-confessed wife of a gang leader and career criminal, how she left the marriage after her husband tried to kill her, and how anyone going through deep traumas and adversities can transform pain into making an impact in the world. Despite immense adversity, Jessica is a wise, grounded and graceful young mother, without a hint of the stereotypical criminal or abuse victim persona- in many ways, she is in fact the epitome of courage, resilience and joy.

Jessica suffered in silence. She couldn’t tell anyone what she saw throughout her husband’s criminal activities, including murder. How could she ever escape? She asks repeatedly, "God, why don't you just end it all for me?", leading her to believe that she exists for a greater reason.

Although she experiences domestic violence, this book focuses on how anyone can turn their pain into purpose, and help elevate consciousness on the planet.

FOREWORD

Emmanuel Jal, author (War Child: A Child Soldier's Story, St. Martin’s Griffin 2009), conscious hip-hop artist and international peace activist.

PREFACE

CHAPTER 1: JOY  VS HAPPINES

Jessica shares her views on the difference between joy and happiness, and why she believes that the key to changing our reality is by first changing our vibration. We accomplish this by feeling good as much as possible!

• ·      Joy and Happiness
  
• ·      What Money Can Buy
  
• ·      Consciousness and Energy 

CHAPTER 2: 360

Two weeks after leaving home, Jessica finds herself in deep trouble with the law. With the guy she just met, Chris, taken to jail, Jessica makes the decision to still build an unusual relationship with him. What she soon discovers is the magnitude of his criminal involvement.

• ·      Police Takedown
  
• ·      The First Decision
  
• ·      Not Just Anyone

CHAPTER 3: THE COME UP

Jessica walks through her painful and turbulent years prior to meeting Chris, trying to make sense of how she ended up on the opposite side of the tracks.

• ·      Grade 10
  
• ·      Gang Rape
  
• ·      Sent to Vancouver
  
• ·      Edmonton Police Gang Unit
  
• ·      First Dip Into Criminal Activities
  
• ·      Dream of Grandpa
  
• ·      Escape to San Francisco

CHAPTER 4: A CHANGE IN PLANS

After building her life back on track in San Francisco, Jessica finds herself back on the street
trying to survive. How did Jessica get to the point of falling back to the streets, despite a bright looking new future? Jessica opens up about meeting a pimp who turns her out onto the streets, to her shock. After having enough with running into police, she reconnects with Chris and returns to Canada be with him.

• ·      Prostitution
  
• ·      Return to Canada
  
• ·      Marriage in Prison
  
• ·      Conceiving First Child

CHAPTER 5: DIGGING A DEEPER HOLE

With another child in the photo, Jessica encounters her first death threat and with more street soldiers knowing her face and police surveillance a regular occurrence, Jessica sees no way out.

• Loyalty
  
• Planning From Prison
  
• Setting Up Shop in Vancouver
  
• Acid Trips
  
• Building An Organization
  
• Abuse Continues
  
• Police Coquitlam

CHAPTER 6: TAKING IT ALL ON

At the busiest time of her life, Jessica finds herself expecting another child while finishing university and helping out with Chris’ business. That is, until he rips someone off in a drug deal gone wrong.

• Three Children
  
• University
  
• The Rip Off
  
• Into Hiding and Going Underground
  

CHAPTER 7: THE ATTACK

Chris’ increased jealousy and control lead to him trying to kill Jessica in a shocking and violent attack.

• Ontario Move
  
• Patrick & Beth
• Attack
  

CHAPTER 8:  HEALING A SOUL

During her healing, Jessica takes time to ask herself what she really wants out of life. Lady Luck is on her side with the employer she works for, helping start a new path for Jessica and her children.

•   Healing
  
•   NY Raw Chef
  
•   Entrepreneurship
  

CHAPTER 9: RELAPSE

In a typical abuser-victim cycle, Jessica secretly visits Chris in jail, both re-professing their love for one another and her agreeing to recant her police statement.

• Jail Visits
  
• Recanting
  
• Come to Jesus TALK
  
• You Started Something
  

CHAPTER 10: POWER OF DECISION

Jessica comes to terms with her dark experiences, yet faces a new challenge: raising three young children on her own and while in hiding. She’s ready to forgive Chris after realizing that if she runs now, she will run for the rest of her life.

• Forgiveness
  
• Single Mom Terror
  
• I Have Needs

Jessica makes a powerful decision about attracting a new lover into her life.  Michael shows up with what she needs plus more. He becomes an anchor for her personal development from that day forward.  

• New Man
  
• Landmark
  
• S33
  
• Responsibility

CHAPTER 12: JOY IS YOUR ONLY JOB

Jessica shares about how one can sustain joy through healthy living, soul, body and
mind. She shares how joy is the best way to get things done.

• Challenges Never End
  
• J-Spot
  
• Stay In The Play

Audience

Primary Market

Males and females 20-45 years-old who’ve been through adversity or deep emotional traumas and are stuck in their pains, often tired of living a diminished, mediocre life not doing what they truly desire. 

 According to the North Dakota Department of Human Services, the economic burden of trauma is more than $585 billion USD every year.

People who have experienced trauma are:

• 15 times more likely to attempt suicide
  
• 4 times more likely to become an alcoholic
• 4 times more likely to develop a sexually transmitted disease
• 4 times more likely to inject drugs
• 3 times more likely to use antidepressant medication
• 3 times more likely to be absent from work
• 3 times more likely to experience depression
• 3 times more likely to have serious job problems
•  2.5 times more likely to smoke
• 2 times more likely to develop chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD)
• 2 times more likely to have serious financial problems

Sources: 

NationalTraumaInstitute.org and RecognizeTrauma.org 

Secondary Market

Adults focused on spiritual evolution and believe that a higher force beyond the physical world exists.

Other viable markets: 

1. Adults who are depressed and suicidal. According to the World Health Organization, "more than 300 million people are now living with mental health issues, an increase of more than 18% between 2005 and 2015. Close to 800 000 people die due to suicide every year, which is one person every 40 seconds. Many more attempt suicide." With the increase in relatable conversations in mainstream media and millions of people suffering in silence, this book is relevant more than ever. People crave connection, purpose and belief in themselves, so that they can be free of their circumstances. 

2. Women’s shelters helping women leave abusive relationships (often times women are compelled to take action when they hear from another woman who has been in their shoes versus a social worker with textbook knowledge)

Domestic violence affects 20 people per minute in the US, which totals to 10 million people per year, according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. One in three women and one in four men have been victims of some form of domestic violence by their intimate partner in their lifetime.

3.  Counsellors/psychologists looking for inspirational stories for clients to read, ex-criminals looking to turn their life around (they can feel misunderstood and unaccepted by mainstream society, so it helps to hear from someone with a relatable background)

4. Women of abuse seeking courage to create a new start for themselves

5. Adults experiencing Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), "a psychiatric disorder that can occur following the experience or witnessing of a life-threatening events such as military combat, natural disasters, terrorist incidents, serious accidents, or physical or sexual assault in adult or childhood." (The Nebraska Department of Veterans Affairs).

According to Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA):

• A lifetime history of sexual abuse among women in childhood or adulthood ranges from 15% to 25%. The prevalence of domestic violence among women in the United States ranges from 9% to 44%, depending on definitions.
• The cost of intimate partner violence, which disproportionately affects women and girls, was estimated to be $8.3 billion in 2003. This total includes the costs of medical care, mental health services, and lost productivity.
• In a 2008 study by RAND, 18.5% of returning veterans reported symptoms consistent with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) or depression.
• In the United States, 18.9% of men and 15.2% of women reported a lifetime experience of a natural disaster.

According to the National Centre for PTSD about seven or eight out of every 100 people will experience PTSD at some point in their lives. 

According to the European Journal of Psychotraumatology, the highest PTSD risk is thought to occur after traumas involving interpersonal violence (Caramanica, Brackbill, Stellman, & Farfel, 2015; Fossion et al., 2015).

Promotion

Here is a recap of all of the initiatives Jessica is involved in or will be involved in in regards to her book:

• June 2018 Podcast: Experience Your Potential (host: Stephanie McKid)

• September 2018 Workshop Facilitation on Living On Purpose and Forgiveness- Sedona, Arizona to 30+ adults

• December 2018 TedX Toronto 

• Early 2019 Workshop Facilitation/Keynote on Transforming Pain Into Joy- Kampala, Uganda to community of 60+ women impacted by domestic violence, rape and abuse

• May 2019 Workshop Facilitation/Book Promotion- Mystical Journey Bookstore, Los Angeles, California to 50 + adults

• My dedicated author website www.JessicaSantonato.com

• Book Campaign/Video www.publishizer.com/joy-is-your-only-job

• Interest from My 3 Angels Productions (Toronto, Canada) for motion picture rights

• Past speaking: Featured Speaker at In HER Honour (Women’s Domestic Violence) at Mississauga City Hall 2013 (Mississauga, Ontario, Canada)

• Facebook 5030 fans
• Instagram 730 followers
• LinkedIn 830 connections

Additional activities:

1. Radio and television
   
2. Press releases to major magazines
   
3. Update to personal website
   
4. Attend professional conferences
   
5. Utilize social media endorsers and partners
   
6. Reach out to large network base of influential entrepreneurs
   
7. Creation of complementary programs and workshops
8. Email marketing campaign
9. Social media campaign
10. Active engagement in Toronto's entrepreneur community 
11. Support confirmed from Brandon Isaac, coach of Saskatchewan Roughriders professional football team/ex-professional football player

Competition

Resilience: Hard-Won Wisdom for Living A Better Life

By Eric Greitens

Mariner Books May 3, 2016

New York Times Bestseller

Synopsis:
In 2012, Eric Greitens unexpectedly heard from a former SEAL comrade, a brother-in-arms he hadn’t seen in a decade. Zach Walker had been one of the toughest of the tough. But ever since he returned home from war to his young family in a small logging town, he’d been struggling. Without a sense of purpose, plagued by PTSD, and masking his pain with heavy drinking, he needed help. Zach and Eric started writing and talking nearly every day, as Eric set down his thoughts on what it takes to build resilience in our lives.

Eric’s letters—drawing on both his own experience and wisdom from ancient and modern thinkers—are now gathered and edited into this timeless guidebook. Greitens shows how we can build purpose, confront pain, practice compassion, develop a vocation, find a mentor, create happiness, and much more. Resilience is an inspiring meditation for the warrior in each of us.

How The Author's Book Compliments: The author exemplifies resilience and shows others how they can use their pains to fuel a joyful life.

“Au bout de la violence” (After the Violence)

By Elina Feriel

Jean-Claude Gawsewitch, May 2013

Synopsis: 

In this memoir, Elina Feriel shares her story of being a gangster’s wife. She grew up in the northern district of Marseille, with an absent mother and an alcoholic father. “I was raised by the streets. I used to go around like a little boy,” she told France Info radio.
A distracted troublemaker at school, Feriel married her husband Sabri when she was still in her late teens. She had fallen for his rough charm, and the two quickly started a family of three children.
He showered her with expensive gifts, the proceeds of his drug-dealing, but as Sabri rose through the ranks to become a top gangster in the city's northern district, his paranoia and abusiveness increased.
Living in constant fear, Sabri began to beat Feriel, and their life spiralled out of control until he was finally shot down with a machine gun while riding his scooter.
Then, incredibly, Feriel’s older brother, who had been convicted of a bag-snatching, as well as her new partner Sam, who was “in with a bad crowd”, were both shot dead over the next few years.
Feriel says her book is not the start of a career in politics, but just to “get things off her chest.”
“I’m not an activist or a spokeswoman…I just felt the need to write this to get things of my chest. It’s crucial. And if it helps to change things, all the better,” she told Elle magazine.
After everything that has happened, Feriel has moved "far away" from Marseille's northern district, and lives with her three children.

How The Author's Book Is Different: The author is a gang-leader's wife as well, however did not come from the streets as part of her upbringing. She turned her life around and created a social enterprise to help support communities around the world impacted by adversity, and now shares her message with as many people as possible to help them through their challenges.

Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience and Finding Joy

By Sandra Sandberg

Knopf April 24, 2017

New York Times Bestseller

Synopsis:
After the sudden death of her husband, Sheryl Sandberg felt certain that she and her children would never feel pure joy again. “I was in ‘the void,’” she writes, “a vast emptiness that fills your heart and lungs and restricts your ability to think or even breathe.” Her friend Adam Grant, a psychologist at Wharton, told her there are concrete steps people can take to recover and rebound from life-shattering experiences. We are not born with a fixed amount of resilience. It is a muscle that everyone can build.

Option B combines Sheryl’s personal insights with Adam’s eye-opening research on finding strength in the face of adversity. Beginning with the gut-wrenching moment when she finds her husband, Dave Goldberg, collapsed on a gym floor, Sheryl opens up her heart—and her journal—to describe the acute grief and isolation she felt in the wake of his death. But Option B goes beyond Sheryl’s loss to explore how a broad range of people have overcome hardships including illness, job loss, sexual assault, natural disasters, and the violence of war. Their stories reveal the capacity of the human spirit to persevere . . . and to rediscover joy.

Resilience comes from deep within us and from support outside us. Even after the most devastating events, it is possible to grow by finding deeper meaning and gaining greater appreciation in our lives. Option B illuminates how to help others in crisis, develop compassion for ourselves, raise strong children, and create resilient families, communities, and workplaces. Many of these lessons can be applied to everyday struggles, allowing us to brave whatever lies ahead. Two weeks after losing her husband, Sheryl was preparing for a father-child activity. “I want Dave,” she cried. Her friend replied, “Option A is not available,” and then promised to help her make the most of Option B.

How The Author's Book Is Different: Through a spiritual lens, the author shares how the power of feeling good and raising her vibration was central to her overcoming adversity after trauma.


Living With Joy

By Sanaya Roman

HJ Kramer/New World Library June 7, 2011

Over 500, 000 copies sold

Synopsis:
With the guidance of this bestselling classic, you can see immediate results in your life when you learn to:

* Love and appreciate yourself
* Open to receive
* Experience more self-confidence and self-esteem
* Live in higher purpose
* Take a quantum leap in any area
* Change negatives into positives
* Gain clarity in your relationships
* Increase your sense of aliveness and well-being

You can live a life that fulfills you. You can radiate love; be compassionate and forgiving; feel inner peace; open to receive; take a quantum leap; and live in higher purpose. You can experience more joy as you increase your self-respect, self-esteem, and self-worth; experience more balance, stability, and security; embrace the new; and discover your higher purpose.

Orin guides you into the art of self-love, where you can accept yourself as you are right now, release guilt, examine how your beliefs about reality create your experience, and open to the love others have for you. Orin discusses the nature and power of love to transform your life.

You will look at how to achieve balance, stability and security; gain more clarity; embrace the new; and discover and draw to you your higher purpose. You will discover more about how to create freedom, to value yourself and where you put your time, and believe that what you love to do is your higher purpose.

You will connect with the power and love of your soul, your innermost self. Orin guides you to recognize who you are, to develop positive pictures about yourself, and how to bring out the higher wisdom, love, and nature of the true self that lies within you.

The images you send out about yourself determine how other people view you and treat you. You will explore the images of yourself that you are holding and broadcasting to others. Orin discusses the value of becoming the authority of what is good for you rather than making other people and their opinions determine your self-worth.

In this book Orin talks about how to have more, believe you can create what you want, open to receive even more than you have ever allowed into your life, and discover the power of appreciation, gratitude, and the law of increase.

You can stop being affected by the world around you. Orin guides you to feeling more inner peace through connecting with your deeper self, and how to stop being affected by the world and instead to positively affect it with your peace.

You can live a life filled with happiness and aliveness as you follow your path of joy. You can learn to create what you want and take a quantum leap in every area of your life, changing your reality and what you experience. You can live a life doing those things you love to do, feel joyful, and bring joy to everyone around you as you do.

You live in a limitless world, and you can expand beyond anything you know. Fill your thoughts with what you want and you will have it. Believe in abundance, trust that the universe is friendly, and sound your soul's note of joy as you read and explore how to live with joy.

Sanaya and Orin invite you to choose joy, release struggle, and open to the power of your innermost being.

How The Author's Book Compliments: The author talks about the power of joy and how changing your vibration changes your reality. It is joy focused.

Ten Years Later: Six People Who Faced Adversity and Transformed Their Lives

By Hoda Kotb

Simon & Schuster, February 4, 2014

New York Times Bestseller

Synopsis: 

Now a New York Times bestseller, in Ten Years Later, Today show co-anchor Hoda Kotb tells the incredible stories of people who, when faced with impossibly challenging or tragic life situations, persevere—and even thrive—and asks, What if you, facing a game-changing event or decision right now, could see ten years into the future?

In Ten Years Later, New York Times bestselling author and beloved co-anchor of the Today show’s fourth hour Hoda Kotb examines game-changing moments experienced by six different people—then revisits those people a decade later. From a mother of two who struggles with an abusive relationship, to a civilian hero of 9/11 who suffers tremendous personal loss in the wake of the terrorist attacks: the harrowing obstacles they faced shook them to their core, but each of these people found the strength to take the first step in a journey that changed their lives for the better. In these beautiful, astonishing, and life-affirming stories, Hoda reveals how adversity can unleash our best qualities: resilience, perseverance, gratitude, empathy, and creativity. This book will show you how to believe in the future, no matter how dark the present, and inspire you to take the first step in your own journey of personal growth.

How The Author's Book Compliments: The author shares her story of persevering and thriving after immense adversity that leaves people ready to take action in their own lives.