Synopsis

Summary:
I sat quietly in front of a seasoned expert, his head deep into the plethora of evidence, and occurrences gathering all he could in details, then he took off his glasses, looked at me and stated in a matter of fact manner "they cut you off at the knees and made you dance."
To play, in a new arena, to prove allegations false (those which I came to semi-believe as I was depleted) Money to an exorbitant amount had been spent, emotions high, enormous toll. I had to borrow $25K to put on the table. Round, who knows how many at this point, as we were fully engaged in criminal, civil and family proceedings, in what was described to me as Chinese water torture. Friends, family, my kids in a constant barrage of pre-planned intentional events meant to harm. It is worse than getting one blow. It was one act after another, relentless, how many I couldn't count. They continued until there was a feeling of total despair and depletion.

This is the time to gain your strength, find your hope, know your confidence, deep within you find it within yourself to strive for the truth. This is the time when you dig deep, search for the best path, and even if only one person believes in you, hang onto that until you can believe in yourself.

This book is about loss, society, purposeful acts, labels, judgments, our systems, and most importantly you. How to find ways, even moments to explore feelings, dissect and find your best path. It is about healing, excelling and shares practices that may help you.

The book explore social influences, philosophies, and the impact of behaviours and how they shape our decision, who we become and ultimately our life, and those around us. It touches upon Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, Survival of the Fittest, Nature v Nurture, theory of blank slate, and the Cinderella story. How external people and theories affect our lives, and is focused on sharing of past ordeals that changed lives dramatically. Through that foundation of sharing it will throw you into what harmful, intentional and devastating actions can create, feel the despair, and loss and how the processes that are not taught, conventionally found, entertained and to look for the strength within you to make better choices, appreciate, heal and move forward.

The book teaches you about the importance of making your own choices, and teaches how we can be the best we can be. How to choose options and behaviour that ultimately will better your well-being and those around you. The goal is to provide tools to the reader on how to overcome external influences, opinions, judgments, labels, intentional cruel acts and strive to be their best self. Huna principles and practices as well as insight will be provided to help ground, heal, release and gain strength, confidence, and hopeful direction.

The book is non-fiction as what occurred is real. It is made fictional through the intention that no names are provided only summarized events. The focus is on philosophy, psychology, principles of Huna and energy healing, as well as the power of the mind. By basing the book on fact the reader is thrown into the horrors and challenges that occurred that are commonplace, perhaps to a lesser extent to some people, and exacting to others so they can relate. There are so many avenues that are unforeseen that no one would not be able to relate. There is a deep emotional hit.

Then principles and practices are provided for a foundation of better behaviours or solutions to achieve more favourable outcomes that focus on self love, healing, to live an authentic life being yourself and celebrating who you are. A life regardless of external influence, and driven by your passions and what you want.

The book shares experience so I may help others through several unconventional avenues, and teach practices that will take them through the other side in a healthy manner. The goal is to help others and to learn the tools to overcome adversity, opinion, and hurt. Solutions, and intentional practices to be their best, happy self.

The expertise comes from living through the abuse, and intentional acts of cruelty, purposely planned, the resulting depletion, self abuse then finding your stronger self, re-correction and striving forward to excel.

Learned from those experiences was the severe impact on my life, and others lives and what can occur when you believe the judgments, mis-truths, and labels that are not real. Getting out of the quagmire takes strength, believing in yourself, with forgiveness first, fortitude and practices that are not taught in our social system or schools.

After the reader reads about the history, or the "rounds" practices, motivational, thought provoking insight, and solutions are provided to challenge, provide direction, hope, healing, goal setting, releasing and uplift in order to help make positive changes.

Happiness, contentment and self love is contagious and your new positive energy also extends to others. I have taken what I have lived through, and those closest to me, shared the summary in a book, and through my expertise, that was learned, history of consulting, guiding and mentoring, the Huna Practitioner skill as well as Reiki and bundled together to provide a concise, thought provoking way forward to well being and a confident, healthy journey.

Sales arguments

• 24 people per minute are victims or physical or emotional abuse, in many forms, including stalking and other detrimental acts. These acts often deplete emotionally, physically and cause mental health problems as well as addictions. There is little help that takes a hard look at the practices that one can undertake to bring forth well-being, close the cycle and live a healthy, successful life. This book teaches very viable options to guide and assist.
• The WHO states that “there is no health without mental health.”...and there are many definitions or mental health or well-being. We all have our own definition and it is often based on our belief system, what is learned, and what we have experienced. One might state that to be healthy (in mind and body), we must be happy with where we are and where we are going. We also must release past pain and forgive. This book helps pave the road to overcome and achieve.
• one in four children are neglected. The least transparent being educational and emotional neglect. As adults our childhood experiences affect our lives and can result in co-dependency or acceptance issues. This book teaches a correction and techniques to appreciate and be happy with yourself and reach within for self love and unconditional love for others while letting go.
• E=Mc2 - energy flows where attention goes. We are taught in school not to daydream, yet studies have shown that there is a powerful link between the mind and body, as well "Neuroscientists now tell us that allowing our minds to wonder can actually form new brain pathways and develop our ability to solve complex problems. This book will teach practices using your mind; awareness, expectation, and confidence to name a few that will better physical and mental health.y
• Henry David Thoreau wrote "“The path of least resistance leads to crooked rivers and crooked men.” There are many quotes, phrases and theories that we learn through education, and on our path may hear from people. Are they true? How true are they and are they applicable to you? This book as a foundation touches on these theories and how you can choose or create you own path, your own "theory" in life, and fulfill your objectives to reach the goal you have set for yourself - with confidence and love.

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Audience

Everyone searching for what to do next, and wanting to be the best person they can be while striving for happiness. Those that have been affected by social influences or felt they are fighting to be understood. This book could very well be the next best thing moving effortlessly forward.

Advance praise

My linkedin profile has many blurbs and accolades written about me that all are welcome to see, and all that have been un-solicited. Verbal comments from those that have watched me rise from the depths of despair, not only standing, but once again achieving at a greater level are waiting for this to not only be a completed book but a mentoring program with mass influence.