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Denise Darlene

Denise Darlene

California, United States

Denise Darlene is a Transformational Love Coach, Author of "Real Passion Revolution", and Spiritual Teacher.

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Denise Darlene focuses her coaching on transforming the way people Love themselves and others. Her passion is supporting people to experience the highest quality relationships possible through an unconventional approach to healing and happiness.

Denise has been a student of human behavior, of God, and of Love, for about 38 years now. She is a retired nurse, a Transformational Love Coach, an ordained minister, a certified Biblical Counselor, and Spiritual teacher. The majority of her Spiritual life was spent in the traditional Christian faith until 2003. While Denise considers herself a student of Jesus, her Spiritual studies are extensive, therefore, she does not subscribe to all of the traditional doctrines taught in the Christian faith. Denise respects and honors everyone’s Spiritual journey.

Due to the high failure rate of romantic relationships as well as her own challenging relationship of thrity-three years, Denise felt compelled to find real solutions to very real issues in an ancient domestication system that doesn't work. Out of her own struggles, personal growth, and Spiritual evolution, Denise developed a powerful relationship program and birthed, "Real Passion Revolution: 10 Secret Ingredients for Healed, Health, Happy Relationships.

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You'll be among the first to receive my brand new book - Real Passion Revolution - hot off the presses on Valentines Day. Plus you'll receive the Kindle version too, which is perfect to take with you wherever you go for easy reading while waiting in lines or for an appointment.

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When the student is ready, the teacher appears. Perhaps your intuition is quietly urging you to get one copy for yourself and an extra copy of Real Passion Revolution for that friend who is desperately unhappy in their current relationship.

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One of the fundamental principles I desire to bring to your awareness is that you have a compass within you that directs you to what is in your best interest. It takes a little practice to get the hang of, but this book will be your teacher.

The Kindle version is included too. Plus I'll give you some love on Facebook, and of course, a hug when our paths cross in person.

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This option sets you up to both Give and Receive. It comes with 4 copies of my book, plus the Kindle version, AND the audio-book version of Real Passion Revolution!

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Cheers to Love, and Welcome to the Revolution, My Friend!

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Who doesn't like seeing their name in print? Honestly?

Your support for creating a Real Passion Revolution will be gratefully noted in the book as a Bronze Sponsor. I suspect this book will eventually get into the hands of Oprah and, who knows, maybe she'll pause on your name and give a moment of thanksgiving that you and others were the first to recognize the global impact of this book. You are an early adopter, my friend. But, of course, you knew that.

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I'll also include you in the Real Passion Revolution Private Facebook Page where you can share your successes and struggles in a community of supportive non-judgmental students.

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Cheers to Love, and Welcome to the Revolution, My Friend!

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You'll be listed as a Silver Sponsor in the front of my book and receive 12 copies to give to friends, family, and co-workers. You are a Revolutionary Lover! And because you are so supportive, I'd like to help you process through an issue you are struggling with. Remember, I create Win-Win relationships.

So, My Friend, with your $250 contribution towards my success on Amazon's best seller list, I'd like to offer you a complimentary coaching session. I'm available via phone, video call, or in person if you are in So Cal.

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Dinner with a Love Coach over some yummy food and a nice glass of wine. That's a winning investment! Sharing a meal and deep conversation is powerful healing medicine.

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Cheers to Love, and Welcome to the Revolution, My Friend!

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I've got 60 books for you with your name in it as a Platinum Sponsor. These make life-changing gifts to share with your employees, clients, and/or extended family. Healed, Healthy, Happy relationships increase connection, authenticity, and productivity.

Additionally, you'll have two tickets to ReNew - A 1-day Transformational Love Course in Southern California in March 2017. If you cannot attend the live workshop in March, I'll trade you for four video coaching sessions. Deal?

Plus, you'll be further equipped with ReInvent, my 10-week online Transformational Love Curriculum.

I'll also enroll you into my Real Passion Revolution Private Facebook Group.

You will be a Love Guru when I'm finished with you--I promise.

*If you don't have 60 friends or family members to give my book to, you can donate some of them to a good cause. Joe and I will be giving away free copies to women's shelters, recovery groups, troubled young adults, and other worthy causes we run into along our path.

We will touch base with you once the campaign is closed to fulfill your order according to your wishes.

Cheers to Love, and Welcome to the Revolution, My Friend!

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Diamond Sponsors are a girl's best friend :)

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I am celebrating your commitment to healing and wholeness, even right now as I type this. Your life is about to change radically! Prepare to let go of your past disappointments and wounds and get ready for a new paradigm - My Friend.

*If you don't have 100 friends or family members to give my book to, (which would be shocking because you are such an amazing person) you can donate some of them to a good cause. Joe and I will be giving free copies to women's shelters, recovery groups, troubled young adults, and other worthy causes we run into along our path.

We will touch base once the campaign is closed to fulfill your order according to your wishes.

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I am your humble servant, Your Majesty.

You are a powerful woman, or driven man of great influence and your kingdom is vast, and yet there is a longing in your heart for something you have been unable to attain.

The wisest advisors in your realm have offered the same, temporary, performance-based solutions which do not satisfy your longing nor heal your past shame, guilt, and your broken heart.

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Because you are royalty, you and your lover or friend will be my special VIP guests at ReNew - A 1-Day Transformational Love Course in March 2017.

Plus, you may register for, or give as a gift, ReInvent - A 10 Week online Transformational Love Curriculum to delve deeper into the powerful concepts I teach.

Your presence is always welcome in my Real Passion Revolution Private Facebook Group as well.

I've heard it's very lonely at the top. As your Majesties advisor, I suggest we focus on your healing so that you can return to your thrown with your whole heart for your loved ones. You shall be known as Lion Heart...or something like that. And you'll have 250 hundred books to disperse this new found wisdom to your loyal subjects.

*If you don't have 250 friends, family members, or loyal subjects to give my book to, you can donate some of them to a good cause. Joe and I will be giving free copies to women's shelters, recovery groups, troubled young adults, and other worthy causes we run into along our path.

We will touch base with you once the campaign is closed to fulfill your order according to your wishes.

Cheers to Love, and Welcome to the Revolution, Your Majesty!

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I have traveled a long distance to come to your assistance. Are the rumors of your sleepless nights accurate?

What disturbs your peace, Emperor?

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Your Enlightenment will set you free and place you on a path of peace and self-awareness you've never imagined possible. Your family will celebrate your transformation for generations to come as the legacy you leave will be one of extraordinary love!

You are a natural-born Leader. We can only take others as far as we have gone ourselves. Your healing will bring happiness to your entire kingdom as you lead them in this new way of loving.

*If you don't have 500 friends, family members, or devoted fans to give my book to, you can donate some of them to a good cause. Joe and I will be giving free copies to women's shelters, recovery groups, troubled young adults, and other worthy causes we run into along our path.

We will touch base with you once the campaign is closed to fulfill your order according to your wishes.

Cheers to Love, and Welcome to the Revolution, Emperor!

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Real Passion Revolution

10 Secret Ingredients for Healed, Healthy, Happy Relationships

Real Passion Revolution teaches highly effective and revolutionary relationship tools, which bring healing, happiness, and passion back into romantic relationships.

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My mission is to teach highly effective and revolutionary relationship tools, which, in turn, will bring healing, happiness, and passion back into romantic relationships. 

My Story:

It wasn’t long into my 33-year marriage that I became frustrated and fearful regarding the future of my relationship with my husband and our three sons. My dreams were shattered when I realized I was married to a chronic alcoholic who had been secretly drinking to manage his anxiety since the age of twelve. 

After seventeen years of marriage and three children I felt stuck. From my perspective, I had two choices: to stay married and suffer the fears associated with my husbands drinking or leave and suffer the fears I had of the judgments of others and figuring out how to take care of my children and myself without a career to fall back on. 

Many times I felt lonely without the companionship and fellowship of a healthy partner. I deeply loved my husband and wanted my marriage to work out. I came from a childhood of multiple failed relationships and I didn’t want my children to suffer the losses I had as a child. I longed for a husband who I could lean upon who would comfort me when my own fears surfaced. Instead I felt the need to protect my husband so he wouldn’t feel the stress or anxiety that typically drove him to self-medicate. I felt burdened with the responsibility of keeping our home-life running smoothly and keeping our children from experiencing the impact of a binge drinker. 

My life vacillated between chaos and relief; expecting, but never really knowing when the next shoe would drop. And then it would hit, and I would go into triage mode, managing the chaos and protecting my children.

It was during those challenging years I choose to learn everything I could about human behavior, emotional healing, and Spiritual enlightenment to gain the skills necessary to not only survive an unhappy marriage, but to thrive in it as well. 

For sixteen more years my wounded husband became my greatest teacher. I experienced unprecedented growth in every area of my life! I became more loving, patient, compassionate, and peaceful as a result of diving into personal development. The last three years were by far the most difficult for me. I now believe I simply stayed longer than the “lessons” I was there to learn. Had I followed my heart and Spirit, I would have left in peace. But, I chose to stay because I was still a slave to my fears. 

Being in a relationship with a chronic addict has many challenges that others don’t experience. As a result of the tools I had developed over the years, I was able to remain loving, and happy for the last sixteen years despite the choices my husband was making. It wasn’t until the last year of my marriage, when the pain of staying became so much bigger than the fear of leaving, that I finally chose to follow my heart and my intuition into the unknown, the unfamiliar, and the possibility of something beautiful.

I am not suggesting that anyone who is struggling in their relationship should leave. On the contrary, with the exception of physical or emotional abuse, I believe that the revolutionary tools I have developed will have a significant impact for transforming a relationship from broken to beautiful, and from hurtful to happy.

At the very least, these tools transformed me into the happy, peaceful, compassionate, loving woman I am today and have equipped me to have the romantic relationship of my dreams!

According to major studies, the divorce rate is around 50 percent of first marriages, and over 70 percent of second and third marriages fail. 

This book addresses the breakdown in relationships and offers the same tools that my lover, Joe, and I use every day to support a Loving, peaceful, safe, authentic, passionate relationship.

"Real Passion Revolution: 10 Secret Ingredients for Healed, Healthy, Happy Relationships" is a unique relationship recipe.  When applied, these principles will have a significant impact to better your life for a healthier, happier you!

Your mission today, should you choose to accept it is to:

  • Transform your life by learning highly unique and effective tools to bring a deep sense of peace, happiness, and passion back into your romantic relationships.
  • Identify and eliminate the hidden fears that govern and derail both your life and your romantic relationship.
  • Heal your inner wounds that cause you and your partner so much conflict and suffering.
  • Learn to be completely authentic and vulnerable in all of your relationships without the fear of judgments or rejection.
  • Become aware of, and avoid, the common, destructive mistakes most couples make in their romantic relationships. 
  • Implement the revolutionary, supportive, and empowering Transformation Tips I teach to create the fun, passionate, happily-ever-after relationship you long for.

I promise you this: if you do the work I’m presenting here, your relationships will change radically. Even better than that, My Friend, you will be transformed dramatically - you will be happy, peaceful, and content. You will be healed and on your way to experiencing the relationship you have been longing for.


The Inspiration

The Vision

The Current Reality


The Main Ingredient: Purpose
Secret Ingredient 1: The Purpose of Love
Secret Ingredient 2: The Purpose of Attraction


Blend Purpose With A New Perspective
Secret Ingredient 3: A New Perspective on Events
Secret Ingredient 4: A New Perspective on Emotional Buttons
Secret Ingredient 5: A New Perspective on Forgiveness


The Binding Ingredients of “US”
Secret Ingredient 6: Communication is “US”
Secret Ingredient 7: Freedom [LOVE] Binds “US”


The Spices Of Life
Secret Ingredient 8: Spicy Genders
Secret Ingredient 9: Spicy Personalities
Secret Ingredient 10: Spicy Love


My book is designed for men and women who are frustrated, disappointed and struggling in their romantic relationships. This book is also invaluable for single persons or new lovers who want to avoid the most common destructive mistakes nearly all couples make - ultimately leading to a failed or unhealthy relationship. This book offers hope and healing for all wounded lovers.

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The Current Reality

You and I have heard story, after story, after story about failed relationships, unfulfilled relationships, and even downright miserable relationships. According to, currently, the divorce rate is around 50 percent of first marriages and 60 – 73 percent of second and third marriages. Keep in mind that the failed marriage statistics don’t include all of the failed relationships, which were never legally recorded. These statistics also doesn’t include all of the couples who are still together but miserable. I'm sure you know many couples who fall into either or both of those camps. But aren’t those failed relationships as well? Based on these unaccounted for relationships, I assert that the “failed relationship statistic” is much higher than the reported divorce statistics, which are already seriously bleak figures!

According to, "When society changes, divorce changes." Three major factors over the past half century that have contributed to the current divorce rate are: 1. The "No-fault" divorce law implemented in the 1970's. Men and women no longer needed to prove abuse or infidelity to leave an unhappy marriage. 2. Woman becoming a strong force in the workplace, creating independence and financial freedom to choose to leave a miserable marriage. 3. Social acceptance. Without the guilt and shame of being divorced people are more likely to divorce. "In short, many couples that would have previously remained married now chose divorce." —

These failed relationships are rising every decade, not because we are getting worse at marriage or relationships, rather because divorce and cohabitation are more accepted, and being happy in a relationship is the new standard. As we drop our judgments on divorce, people will have more freedom to leave a relationship that is painful and unfulfilling. However, they still won’t know what they did to contribute to the breakdown of their relationship or how to have better results the next time around.

It’s surprising that people continue to get married given these dismal statistics. I guess it’s just part of our human nature—the disbelief that what happens to the majority of people will happen to us. Or, we think we are going to do “it” differently, but most of us don’t! Why don’t we? I believe it’s because we have never taken a close look at what “it” is that isn’t working in these committed intimate relationships.

I wanted to know why. What are we doing or not doing that is causing so much unhappiness in these close intimate relationships? How do two people start out happy and hopeful, merge their lives together, make commitments to Love each other for the rest of their lives, and then it all goes to hell?

Doing the same things in our intimate relationships over and over again, generation after generation, hoping for different results is insane! Obviously, something isn’t working! After many years of research, personal experience, and coaching clients, I believe I have some insight to these questions.

My lover, Joe, has been my “experiment” for this material. My approach with Joe has actually changed the heart of a wounded skeptic into a rather eager, hopeful believer in a Real Passion Revolution, for us, and for those who join us on this journey. We hope Our work will bring healing to struggling relationships as well as prevent new relationships from ever experiencing the destructive effects of the status quo. Our desire is to establish the conditions for true Love, and produce a Real Passion Revolution around the world!

The focus of this book is to support your healing, My Friend, as well as the healing of your partner. The result will be empowering, fulfilling, safe, authentic, loving, passionate relationships.

The definition of “Healing,” as I am using it in this book, is to cause a shift in perspective from one of pain to power, from oppression to opportunity, from turmoil to tranquility, from victim to victor, from fear to Love! I am NOT advocating denial of any fear, pain, or anger you are experiencing. I am promoting a practice which will bring light and healing to your suffering. This healing, or shift in perspective, is accomplished with the guidance of your Inner Wisdom.

Sacred writings teach that when our thoughts are aligned with truth, we will experience freedom. How do we know if we believe a lie or the truth? By our sense of anxiety, fear, and despair or peace, joy, and freedom.

Chew on that for a bit and then file it away for later when I teach you how this concept works. For now, all I’m asking is that you stay open to the possibility that what I am sharing with you is true. From my own experience, there is a clear path from suffering to healing and freedom by understanding the application of truth!

The best way to get to any goal is to be very clear about where you are currently. If you want to take a trip to Florida, you need to know where you are starting the journey from. The route will be entirely different if you are starting off in Maine or California. Below is an exercise to help you get clear about your current reality, what’s missing for you, and where it is exactly you want to go.



Be specific. Example: Describe what an ideal relationship would look like for you. “I want to be able to have any conversation with my partner without him getting upset and shutting down.” Describe what being happy looks like for you. “I would be happy if I felt confident and secure.” The more time and details you give to this process, the more likely you are to achieve them.

What are the longings you have for an intimate relationship? (safe, passionate, compassionate, supportive, etc.)

What is your greatest fear regarding your intimate relationship?

What is the current reality of your intimate relationship? (passionate, fighting, passive, lonely, connected, distant, etc.)

How is this current reality impacting your life? (health, happiness, business, etc.)

How is this reality affecting those around you? (What are your friends and family missing out on with you as a result of your current reality? How does your relationship inspire others?)

As you consider these results, what are you feeling? (happy, hopeless, frustrated, content, disappointed, etc.)

How did you get to this place in your relationship? (Be specific. Work became more important, I was afraid to tell my partner how I was feeling, I started nagging/complaining to feel heard and get my needs met, We made a commitment to spend quality time together, etc.)

If nothing changes, where do you see yourself in a year? In five years? (peaceful, stressed, content, miserable, divorced, married, etc.)

When these issues are resolved, and you are experiencing what you have been longing for, what difference will that make in your life? How will you feel then? (happy, fulfilled, peaceful, etc.)

Review your answers to question #1. Do your actions align with your desires? In other words, are you giving to your lover what you long for yourself? If not, make a list of those longings that you need to sow into your relationship. Example: If you long for a relationship where you can be authentic without any judgments, do you allow your partner to be completely authentic? Do you try to change your lover? Do you have any judgments about your partner?

It is critical that you model for your partner, or give to your lover, that which you long for, regardless of their behaviors. You must be clear about what it is you are committed to cause in your relationship in order to line up your actions with your commitment. I run all of my conversations and responses through the filter of what I am committed to have in all of my relationships—especially in my romantic relationship. I have found, without fail, that whatever has been lacking in my relationships is only what I have not given, or not given consistently in the relationship.

Stay alert and diligent, My Friend! Sow only Love into your relationships, and you will reap Love in abundance in return.

Dear God of All— In All, I believe it is You who have guided me to all of my teachers on my journey of Spiritual evolution to make me whole and full of joy. I am ready to do the work to have the results I long for in both my personal healing and for a Real Passion Revolution with my lover. Open my eyes to see what I have been blind to see until now.
And so it is, My Friend! And so it is!

  • Update #6 - Real Passion Revolution Update May 17, 2017

    Good Morning Revolutionary Lovers, 

    I hope by now all of you have had a chance to read my book. If you have, I have a …

  • Update #5 - Valentines Launch Day! Feb. 14, 2017

    Happy Valentines Day Revolutionary Lovers! 

    I just wanted to remind you of the significant impact your support has had on me personally. Thank you for …

  • Update #4 - Getting Closer Jan. 31, 2017

    Greetings Revolutionary Lovers! 

    We are getting closer everyday to reaching our goal of 500 pre-orders! Tonight, Joe and I are committed to reach 300 orders …

  • Update #3 - Helpful Update Jan. 24, 2017

    I love my LaunchTeam Family! Thank you for your awesome support. 10 of you signed up to be my Thunderclap Buddy today. I feel loved …

  • Update #2 - Thunderclap link Jan. 23, 2017

    Happy Monday Friends, 

    My friend, Andie, let me know that the Thunderclap link wasn't working correctly so here's an updated link. 


    Hope this wet …

  • Update #1 - Thunderclap + LaunchTeam Buddies Jan. 23, 2017

    Howdy Revolutionary Lovers, 

    I'm so excited to be just past my 1/2 way goal with 15 days to go until my campaign ends. Thank you …

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  • Jason Yormark
    on Jan. 6, 2017, 10:23 p.m.

    Good luck and looking forward to reading your book!

  • Denise Darlene
    on Jan. 6, 2017, 10:30 p.m.

    Thank you, Jason. Please let me know if I can support you when it's time to publish your book if you decide to self-publish. I went all the way through that process before I found the publisher I'm now working with.

    I see what you mean, by your email alerts being exciting! Your order certainly made me smile! Thanks again!

  • Aaron Tosti
    on Jan. 7, 2017, 4:01 a.m.

    Denise! So excited for the release! I hope great things happen with your book!

  • cherie steinberg
    on Jan. 8, 2017, 3:42 a.m.

    So proud of you and what a much needed read for so many people!!! Love you....

  • Jevon Perra
    on Jan. 9, 2017, 8:50 p.m.

    Thanks Denise for your life and your work!

  • Allison Trantow
    on Jan. 10, 2017, 7:03 p.m.

    Love you and am so freakin proud of you!!!! Xoox - Alley

  • Lynette Osborne
    on Jan. 11, 2017, 5:38 a.m.

    Thanks for sharing your story which is VERY similar to mine! I'm excited to read this book with my new husband:=} . Lynette (Friend of the Paulcivic Family since the 1980's)

  • Terri Shubin
    on Jan. 11, 2017, 8:31 p.m.

    I'm so thrilled for you and can't wait to dive into your book! 💗

  • Janis Foley
    on Jan. 11, 2017, 11:32 p.m.

    I absolutely can not wait to check out your book Denise! I'm so happy to hear that you and Joe are doing great. Blessings to the both of you for 2017! <3

  • dani hage
    on Jan. 12, 2017, 6:49 p.m.

    So excited for you! I always thought you would're so good with words! Love you!

  • deleted deleted
    on Jan. 14, 2017, 1:04 a.m.

    I am excited and honored to be a part of your work and your world!

  • Denise Darlene
    on Jan. 14, 2017, 3:50 a.m.

    You're killing me with kindness, Jesse! My personal goal today was to reach 200 orders. I was hustling on Facebook when I told Joe that I got 2 orders and only needed 6 more to reach my commitment. Five minutes later, your order came in! You made my day and my week complete! Thank you for your commitment to the success of RPR and of my business! May God return your kindness 100 fold in 2017 ;)

  • Artemas Mott
    on Jan. 14, 2017, 11:23 a.m.

    I can't wait to read your book Denise! Thank you for everything. You are an inspiration and role model for us all!

  • Denise Darlene
    on Jan. 14, 2017, 6 p.m.

    Thank you, Heather, and Artemas for your loving support.

  • Charla Bird
    on Jan. 15, 2017, 12:18 a.m.

    Looking forward to reading your book!

  • Todd Morris
    on Jan. 16, 2017, 12:41 a.m.

    We love you and all of ur messages! This book is brilliant and the lessons really have worked for me. Denise, you are amazing!!

  • Suzanne Troyer
    on Jan. 18, 2017, 4:53 a.m.

    Okay my dear friend
    I purchased 10 books
    Cannot wait to get them.
    I will be donating some of them but first I have people that need it. I also want one for myself.
    Much love and blessings to you

  • Scott Parsons
    on Jan. 21, 2017, 11 p.m.

    Thank you for sharing your relationship and life skills knowledge and experience with the world Denise! You have such a warm, huge heart, full of authentic love that exudes grace that fosters one to open up to be vulnerable so healing can arise and peace blossom abundantly.

  • Denise Darlene
    on Jan. 21, 2017, 11:20 p.m.

    Scottie, everyone needs a friend like you! Thank you for your constant loving support. I love you brother!

  • Guy Vincent
    on Jan. 26, 2017, 2:22 a.m.

    Amazing work Denise! Here's to hitting 500 pre-orders :)

  • Keats Elliott
    on Jan. 29, 2017, 11:22 p.m.

    So excited to watch you make this come to life in the world!

  • Adam Brophy
    on Jan. 30, 2017, 1:49 p.m.

    Can't wait to get my hands and heart on this book! Congratulations!!!

  • Kevin Galagher
    on Jan. 31, 2017, 4:17 a.m.

    Can't wait to read it!! Thank you Denise for sharing your wisdom and knowledge!!

  • Hunter Clark
    on Jan. 31, 2017, 7:07 p.m.

    Love you Denise!! Congratulations on your book!

  • Joy Halverson
    on Feb. 1, 2017, 4:16 a.m.

    So happy to be able to ore-order! Got one for a friend too! Would love to see you guys! Joy

  • Joey Colombo
    on Feb. 1, 2017, 8:02 a.m.

    What I have learned from Denise in one conversation, will help me for a lifetime!

  • Brooke Barton
    on Feb. 2, 2017, 1:35 a.m.

    So proud of you and cant wait to read your beautiful book sweetie. Huge hugs and love my sweet friend <3

  • Brook Todd
    on Feb. 4, 2017, 4:27 a.m.

    Congrats on getting the book done, quite the accomplishment.