The Struggle

October of 2012, World Health Organization reports 350 million people worldwide suffer from depression and women are twice as likely to suffer from depression as men of the same age. In 2011, the Institute of Medicine (IOM) reported that over 100 million Americans suffer from chronic pain and one year earlier the Overlapping Conditions Alliance reported that over half of them were women. Women report pain more frequently, severe and of longer duration than men, but are nonetheless treated for pain, less aggressively than men. In connection, the Mental Health Foundation reported that although, on average, women rate their life satisfaction higher than men, their anxiety levels are significantly higher than men.

The Source of the Struggle

Women are suffering, but not because they're incapable of making themselves happy. They're waiting on society to give them permission. They've been conditioned to put everyone else's desires before theirs. As a result, the average woman feels unappreciated, taken for granted and suppressed but doesn't express it. I know this because my team and I conducted a survey of over a thousand women during a course of ten years and on average, this was what women reported.

The Solution

Now more than ever women are wanting to pursue their pleasures, powers and to climax to their personal greatness without feeling guilty about it. This is where Mind-blowing InnerCourse (MBI) comes in. It is based upon the 10 requirements for climaxing to your personal greatness. MBI awakens the primal sense of authority in women. It moves them to grant permission to themselves to pursue their pleasures, powers and greatness with no regrets. It transforms the negative patriarchal connotation associated with pleasure into a common sense understanding of pleasure... the drive to pleasure our own nature. It reveals the truth about pleasure the world has hidden from them and that is this...on a primal level Pleasure is our only reason for living and it's exclusive.

Two people never experience the same kind of pleasure. No woman can achieve optimal self-expression until she pleases her nature, in doing so rescues herself from misery and suffering.

The Silver Bullet

It's impossible to utter the words, Mind-blowing InnerCourse without thinking about sex. Just as sex is a form of intimate communication with another person's body, mind, and spirit, MBI focuses on you. With MBI, a woman penetrates the center of her Universe – self.

I consider MI the original (first) sex: the intimate communication she has with self before she engages in sex with another. MBI empowers women to touch themselves in places they've always yearned to be touched. It evokes the primal nature in them to achieve climax: the highest self-expression.

The Audience

My target audience is women between the ages of 22 to 60, who are actively seeking solutions to the problem of feeling underappreciated, taken for granted and suppressed. I've worked with this audience for over 15 years. Essentially, they're in search of the answer to this question: “How do I set myself free?"

The Edge

Women like Dr. Brenē Brown, author of Rising Strong; The Reckoning. The Rumble. The Revolution openly expresses the frustrations and aspirations of women today from a female perspective.

Women finding and speaking from their authentic voices is more important than the voice of their sexuality. As long as there is guilt and shame surrounding the conversation there is no authentic voice.

As a man championing the rights of women to pursue their own pleasures powers and greatness, I have become an added attraction. I have found that because of societal conditioning women are more inclined to listen to men about certain issues than women; this makes MBI an added attraction.

My Story

I know what it feels like to be so depressed and hopeless that you no longer want to live; I endured it for 16 years. You want someone to take you out of your misery. On the other hand, I have also felt totally unstoppable and committed to living my life to the fullest. How I evolved from wanting to take my life to being totally on fire for living is moral of my story. No one makes it out of the darkness alone. We need a guide, someone we trust to turn us back into ourselves.

My teacher, Master Wali Muhammad knew this and was compassionate enough to show me the way. Imagine meeting someone who completely shattered your beliefs and replaced them with unimaginable possibilities: Master Wali did that for me.

Within a short period of time, I could see the light at the end of my tunnel of depression. He was a self-taught guru, a world traveler whose history could be traced back to the Nation of Islam. There he served as a captain under the tutelage of Elijah Muhammad. Master Wali elevated my thinking so I could see the universal connections between all men and I remained under his tutelage for close to five years.

Graduating was contingent upon creating one original idea; Mind-blowing InnerCourse was my original idea.

Me Today

Today I'm a contemporary relationship specialist with over twenty-five years of experience traveling around the country facilitating workshops, seminars, and keynote addresses for organizations, businesses and women's groups. I am one of the co-founders, of the Ultimate Woman's
Project in Houston, Texas along with Michelle Paul, a certified Life Coach.

I have a Bachelors degree in Sociology from McNeese State University in Lake Charles, Louisiana. I'm a graduate of Landmark Education's – Forum, Advance Training, Self-Expression Leadership Program and Communications Programs of Houston, Texas. I'm also a certified core-trainer with ThePeople"s Institute For Survival and Beyond (PISAB). As a Core Trainer, I've trained over 75,000 people.

Below is a list of speaking engagements associated with MI:

• National Association of University Women, Lake Charles Chapter
• M.D. Anderson Cancer Center, Houston, Texas
• UMC Health System, Lubbock, Texas
• The Jewish Board of Children and Family Services, New York, NY
• Des Moines Public School System, Des Moines, Iowa
• US Department of Justice Community Relations Division, Dallas Texas

Table of Contents

Forward

Chapter Zero: What Everyone Really Wants?

Chapter One: Why Sex?

Chapter Two: Who is this book for?

Chapter Three: My Story

Chapter Four: Jumping off the Cliff to Your Climax

Chapter Five: The Pleasure-Business

Chapter Six: Getting Started

Chapter Seven: A Painful Start -- A Pleasurable Finish

The 10 Requirements

1st: Penetrate Your Pleasure

2nd: Have Mind-Blowing Makeup InnerCourse

3rd: Resolve Your Conflict with Pleasure

4th: Give into your Ultimate

5th: Put Yourself where your heart already is

6th: Make your body feel welcomed

7th: Get out of the Missionary Position

8th: Focus Your Greatness

9th: Wake Up To Wonderland

10th: Go Back Inside the House

Conclusion

Be the Queen on the Chessboard